Getting to Know You Questions for Couples
Whether you've been on three dates or together for ten years, there's always more to learn about the person across from you. These questions skip the small talk and get to the stories, quirks and little details that make your partner who they are.
Take turns answering, and don't rush to the next card. The best conversations usually come from the follow-up, so we've added one for each question.
Best for: new couples, first dates and anyone who wants to learn something new about their partner.
20 Getting to Know You questions to try tonight
1.What's a childhood memory that always makes you smile?
Go deeper: Who was with you during this memory?
2.If you could master any skill instantly, what would it be?
Go deeper: What would you do with this skill first?
3.What's your perfect lazy Sunday look like?
Go deeper: What's playing in the background?
4.What book/movie/show has influenced you the most?
Go deeper: What specific moment resonated with you?
5.What's a small thing someone can do that instantly brightens your day?
Go deeper: When was the last time someone did this for you?
6.What's your go-to comfort food and why?
Go deeper: What memories are attached to this food?
7.If you could relive one year of your life, which would it be?
Go deeper: What made that year so special?
8.What's something you're weirdly competitive about?
Go deeper: Where does this competitiveness come from?
9.What does your ideal morning routine look like?
Go deeper: How close is your current routine to the ideal?
10.What's a secret talent or hobby most people don't know about?
Go deeper: Why do you keep it secret?
11.What's your favorite way to celebrate good news?
Go deeper: Who's the first person you want to tell?
12.What's a tradition from your family that you'd like to continue?
Go deeper: What makes this tradition meaningful?
13.What's your relationship with social media?
Go deeper: How does it make you feel?
14.If you could have dinner with anyone living or dead, who would it be?
Go deeper: What would you ask them?
15.What's your favorite season and why?
Go deeper: What activities do you look forward to?
16.What's the best gift you've ever received?
Go deeper: Why was it so meaningful?
17.What's your love language?
Go deeper: When did you discover this about yourself?
18.What's a smell that instantly transports you somewhere?
Go deeper: Where does it take you?
19.What's your coffee or tea order?
Go deeper: When did you start drinking it this way?
20.What's a nickname you've had and the story behind it?
Go deeper: Do you like this nickname?
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